J.D v. G.W

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                                                         SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
                                                         APPELLATE DIVISION
                                                         DOCKET NO. A-0802-18T1

J.D.,

          Plaintiff-Appellant,

v.

G.W.,

     Defendant-Respondent.
______________________________

                    Submitted January 23, 2020 – Decided March 2, 2020

                    Before Judges Whipple and Gooden Brown.

                    On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey,
                    Chancery Division, Family Part, Middlesex County,
                    Docket No. FD-12-1656-14.

                    J.D., appellant pro se.

                    Respondent has not filed a brief.

PER CURIAM

          In this non-dissolution matter, plaintiff mother appeals from a September

5, 2018 Family Part order, denying her motion to suspend defendant father's
parenting time and for sole legal custody of their five-year-old daughter, C.D.1

We affirm.

        The parties share joint legal custody, with plaintiff designated as the

residential parent of C.D., a child with reported "medical challenges." The

parties engaged in extensive motion practice primarily propelled by accusations

that, given her medical issues, defendant did not properly care for C.D. during

his parenting time.      As a result, by court order, defendant was afforded

supervised parenting time only pending his completion of training to

appropriately care for C.D.

        Subsequently, at a February 14, 2018 hearing on plaintiff's Order to Show

Cause (OTSC), defendant provided proof that he completed training at Raritan

Bay Medical Center on August 10, 2016.              After considering defendant's

submission and reviewing a report of the 2017 supervised visits, during which

the supervisor reported no concerns regarding defendant's interaction with C.D.

and documented plaintiff's repeated failure to appear with C.D.,2 the judge


1
    We use initials in order to protect the privacy of the parties and their child.
2
   In responding to plaintiff's claim that her absences were attributable to C.D.'s
illness, the judge noted that "it was striking . . . that the child was consistently
sick on Saturdays" when defendant's supervised visits were scheduled. The
judge pointed out that there was a "history" of plaintiff impeding defendant's
parenting time that would not be "tolerate[d]."
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entered an order affording defendant unsupervised parenting time "every

Saturday from [10:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m.]," effective February 17, 2018, to be

"expand[ed] to [10:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m.]," effective March 10, 2018. Given the

acrimony between the parties, the judge ordered that the exchanges were to take

place at the New Brunswick Police Department.

      Thereafter, on August 29, 2018, plaintiff filed another OTSC to suspend

defendant's parenting time and grant her sole legal custody of C.D. based on

allegations that, during his parenting time, defendant had been "spanking[]"

C.D., putting "tight little cornrows" in her hair that "pull[] her scalp" and "hurt[]

her," removing her clothes and "examin[ing] her body," and feeding her only

"McDonalds." In support, plaintiff provided a New Brunswick police report

documenting a child custody dispute that occurred during the August 25, 2018

visitation exchange, during which plaintiff made these allegations to the

reporting officer in the presence of defendant and C.D.

      According to the report, when defendant asked C.D. in the officer's

presence whether he hit her, C.D. "looked up at [defendant] and nodded her head

up and down saying 'yes.'" The report also indicated that plaintiff returned to

the police station three days later and asked the officer to "add" to the report that

defendant reacted to C.D.'s admission that he hit her by "extend[ing] his arms


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like he wanted to choke [C.D.]" out of anger. However, the officer reported

instead that while defendant "appeared angry," he did not "recall . . . [defendant]

extend[ing] his arms as if he wanted to choke his daughter." The report noted

further that the officer reported the allegations to the Division of Child

Protection and Permanency (DCPP) and "advised [plaintiff] to follow up with

her DCPP case worker and the judge overseeing the visitation process."

      At the September 5, 2018 hearing on plaintiff's OTSC, in addition to the

police report, the judge considered an August 29, 2018 update from DCPP,

indicating that the investigation into plaintiff's allegations against defendant

were still pending, but that the case would be submitted for closure shortly.

Addressing the judge, plaintiff changed her position from seeking suspension of

defendant's parenting time to "want[ing] him . . . supervised" during his

visitation with C.D. In response, defendant submitted two letters, dated August

30 and September 3, 2018, denying any wrongdoing, including spanking or

hitting C.D. in any way, and delineating how plaintiff has continuously

attempted to thwart his parenting time.

      As an example, according to defendant, plaintiff "lied to [the police],

stating [he] had weapons in [his] house, which resulted in multiple police cars

coming to [his] house, searching [his] house, as well as [his] father's apartment."


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Additionally, plaintiff "lied to the [c]ourt when she did not want to cooperate in

the transportation for [C.D.'s] visitation" by stating "she did not have a vehicle"

when defendant "witnessed her drive up in her car each time [he] would come

to [c]ourt." Further, plaintiff "lied to the [c]ourt, stating [defendant] stood on

the courthouse steps and threatened her [and C.D.'s lives,]" when "[t]he

courthouse cameras . . . show[ed] . . . no interaction" between them. Notably,

at the hearing, defendant also testified that during the DCPP investigation, when

C.D. was interviewed by the DCPP workers about plaintiff's allegations, she

denied being spanked by defendant. Defendant stated further that C.D. told one

of his friends "mommy lied on daddy."

      Finding plaintiff "failed to demonstrate a substantial change in

circumstances," the judge denied "[p]laintiff's request to suspend defendant's

parenting time and for sole legal custody . . . without prejudice" pending the

completion of DCPP's investigation.            The judge explained that if DCPP

substantiated the allegations, that could result in "a modification" or "a

suspension of [defendant's] parenting time." Considering C.D.'s "best interest,

. . . safety, [and] . . . welfare," the judge stressed that he "[did] not trivialize [the

allegations]."

      However,


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             [t]he [c]ourt also weighs those against the he said, she
             said, where the plaintiff is finger pointing at the
             defendant, the defendant denying it, and finger pointing
             at the plaintiff, for essentially, contriving these
             allegations. The [c]ourt is not in a position to determine
             who is telling the truth or not. DCPP is obviously in a
             far better position, because they're on the ground, so to
             speak. They're investigating, doing interviews, and
             what have you.

      The judge further noted that if there was "evidence suggesting . . . , as

[defendant] alleges, that this is another example of plaintiff's attempt to interfere

with parenting time, then the [c]ourt has recourse under [Rule] 5:3-7, which

could include a transfer of custody." In that regard, the judge pointed out that

"[i]n the two years that [he had] been responsible for [the] case, [plaintiff had]

thrown every roadblock known to mankind in front of [defendant's] ability" to

exercise his parenting time. The judge also indicated that the conflicting account

plaintiff provided to the DCPP worker when she stated that "[defendant] choked

[C.D.] in front of" the responding police officer during the August 25, 2018

"custody exchange at the New Brunswick Police Department" 3 was emblematic

of "the lies[] and . . . schemes concocted by . . . plaintiff," during the course of




3
  When confronted with the conflicting statement by the judge, plaintiff retorted
the DCPP worker "wrote it wrong."
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the proceedings, "mak[ing] . . . her allegations . . . difficult to assess." The judge

entered a memorializing order and this appeal followed.

      On appeal, plaintiff argues the judge erred "as a matter of law" by

"disregarding key facts that in their totality[,] demonstrate the changed

circumstances that affect the child's welfare." Plaintiff also argues the judge

deprived her of "due process" by his "extreme bias against [her]" as reflected in

the "judge's venomous statements." We disagree.

      In any custody or parenting time dispute, "it is well settled that the court's

primary consideration is the best interests of the child[]." Hand v. Hand,  391 N.J. Super. 102, 105 (App. Div. 2007). Thus, a parent seeking to modify a

parenting time schedule "bear[s] the threshold burden of showing changed

circumstances which would affect the welfare of the child[]." Todd v. Sheridan,

 268 N.J. Super. 387, 398 (App. Div. 1993) (citing Sheehan v. Sheehan,  51 N.J.

Super. 276, 287 (App. Div. 1958)). See also Lepis v. Lepis,  83 N.J. 139, 157

(1980).

      To determine whether the requisite changed circumstances exist, the court

must consider the circumstances that existed at the time the current order was

entered. Sheehan,  51 N.J. Super. at 287-88. Then, the court can "ascertain what

motivated the original judgment and determine whether there has been any


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change in circumstances." Id. at 288. Once the moving party makes a prima

facie showing of changed circumstances, only then is the moving party entitled

to "a plenary hearing as to disputed material facts regarding the child's best

interests, and whether those best interests are served by modification of the

existing . . . order." Faucett v. Vasquez,  411 N.J. Super. 108, 111 (App. Div.

2009).

      In general, because the Family Part has special expertise in family matters

and the opportunity to observe witnesses first-hand, we defer to factual

determinations made by the trial court as long as they are "supported by

adequate, substantial, and credible evidence in the record."           Milne v.

Goldenberg,  428 N.J. Super. 184, 197 (App. Div. 2012) (citing Cesare v. Cesare,

 154 N.J. 394, 413 (1998)). However, we review the Family Part's interpretation

of the law de novo. Manalapan Realty, L.P. v. Manalapan Twp. Comm.,  140 N.J. 366, 378 (1995). Notably, a decision concerning custody and parenting

time rest in "the sound discretion of the trial courts." Pascale v. Pascale,  140 N.J. 583, 611 (1995). See Abouzahr v. Matera-Abouzahr,  361 N.J. Super. 135,

157 (App. Div. 2003) ("Judges of the Family Part are regularly called upon to

make exceedingly difficult and delicate decisions as to the best interest of




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children, and we are obliged to give deference to both their findings and the

exercise of their sound discretion.").

      Here, we find no error in the judge's determination, and we discern no

abuse of discretion. Pending the completion of DCPP's investigation, plaintiff's

allegations were supported only by her own account, and, given her past false

accusations against defendant and attempts to deprive him of parenting time, the

judge did not find her to be credible. "Where, as here, intimate knowledge of

the circumstances . . . has been gained by the judge through perennial contact

with the case, we should not substitute our judgment for his, except for

compelling reasons." Schwartz v. Schwartz,  68 N.J. Super. 223, 232 (App. Div.

1961). Here, no such reasons appear. Because plaintiff did not meet the changed

circumstances threshold, the judge was not obliged to hold a best-interests

plenary hearing on the OTSC. However, because the application was denied

without prejudice, plaintiff is not precluded from refiling the application,

supported by corroborating evidence.

      To the extent we have not specifically addressed any remaining arguments

raised by plaintiff, we conclude they lack sufficient merit to warrant discussion

in a written opinion. R. 2:11-3(e)(1)(E).

      Affirmed.


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