JEAN MARIE STELICOS v. MICHAEL STELICOS
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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
APPELLATE DIVISION
DOCKET NO. A-5492-16T4
JEAN MARIE STELICOS,
Plaintiff-Respondent,
v.
MICHAEL STELICOS,
Defendant-Appellant.
___________________________
Argued January 7, 2019 – Decided January 31, 2019
Before Judges Fasciale and Gooden Brown.
On appeal from Superior Court of New Jersey,
Chancery Division, Family Part, Middlesex County,
Docket No. FM-12-1631-06.
Michael Stelicos, appellant, argued the cause pro se.
Respondent has not filed a brief.
PER CURIAM
Defendant Michael Stelicos appeals from a June 28, 2017 order, which
denied his requests (1) for reimbursement from his ex-wife, plaintiff Jean Marie
Stelicos, for money that she borrowed from defendant; (2) for plaintiff to pay
defendant's living expenses; (3) for plaintiff to reimburse defendant for ite ms of
defendant's personal property that plaintiff discarded; and (4) for plaintiff to
return to defendant items of his personal property that plaintiff currently holds.
The judge also denied defendant's request to terminate any and all of defendant's
support obligations to plaintiff, emancipate the parties' children, and denied all
claims for relief not specifically referred to in the order. The judge granted in
part defendant's motion requesting that plaintiff reimburse defendant for the
equity of the former marital residence pursuant to the parties' Final Judgment of
Divorce (FJOD), if plaintiff provided proof of the recorded mortgage in favor
of defendant by July 15, 2017. Plaintiff has not filed an opposition brief.
The parties divorced in October 2006. They lived together until 2011. In
the 2006 FJOD, defendant was ordered to pay $500 per month in child support,
which was set to commence in October 2008. Plaintiff was permitted to retain
the marital home "until the last of the parties' children graduates college or is
otherwise emancipated," upon which the home "shall be either sold or refinanced
by . . . [p]laintiff who shall, at that time, pay . . . [d]efendant his net equity of
$68,430.50." The judge determined this figure by deducting the total
encumbrances (two mortgages) from the value of the house, and then splitting
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the net equity in half. Plaintiff was solely responsible for all costs associated
with the marital home and assumed all responsibility for the first and second
mortgages. Defendant was to execute a deed to transfer his "right, title and
interest" in the home, subject to the mortgages for which "[p]laintiff shall hold
[d]efendant harmless at her sole cost and expense." In exchange, plaintiff was
to execute a mortgage in the amount of $68,430.50 securing defendant's interest
in the marital home.
Defendant makes five points on appeal:
POINT I
THE TRIAL [JUDGE] ERRED IN NOT GRANTING
RELIEF TO DEFENDANT BECAUSE PLAINTIFF
BREACHED HER DUTY OF REPAYING
DEFENDANT HIS BORROWED MONEY AND
ABANDONED THEIR AGREEMENTS AVOIDING
ANY CONTACT OR SETTLEMENT OF HER
LOANS FROM DEFENDANT SINCE JULY 2011.
POINT II
THE TRIAL [JUDGE] ERRED IN NOT
RESPONDING TO DEFENDANT'S REQUEST FOR
LEGITIMATE RETROACTIVE INTEREST TO BE
INCLUDED IN HIS SHARED MARITAL
RESIDENCE INTEREST SINCE THAT MORTGAGE
AMOUNT OF $68,430.50 (10/10/2006 FINAL
DIVORCE JUDG[]MENT/PARAGRAPH 7.1) WAS
NEVER EXECUTED BY PLAINTIFF TO THIS
DATE AND ANY MORTGAGE ACCOUNT
ALWAYS BEARS INTEREST EARNED OR
CHARGED.
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POINT III
THE TRIAL [JUDGE] ERRED IN DENYING
REIMBURSEMENT TO DEFENDANT ABOUT ALL
HIS PERSONAL PROPERTY [BEING] DISCARDED
AND/OR NEVER RETURNED TO HIM BY
PLAINTIFF SINCE JULY 2011 BECAUSE THE TWO
PARTIES NEVER DIVIDED THEIR BELONGINGS
AFTER THEIR DIVORCE AND CONTINUED
LIVING TOGETHER UNTIL JULY 2011. SINCE
THEN DEFENDANT NEVER RECEIVED ANY OF
HIS PERSONAL BELONGINGS FROM PLAINTIFF
AND/OR ANY REIMBURSEMENT ABOUT ALL
HIS PERSONAL PROPERTY AT THEIR FORMER
MARITAL RESIDENCE. PLAINTIFF DISCARDED
MUCH OF DEFENDANT'S PERSONAL PROPERTY
WITHOUT HIS KNOWLEDGE OR CONSEN[T] IN
2011 TO THE PRESENT.
POINT IV
THE TRIAL [JUDGE] ERRED IN DENYING
DEFENDANT'S REQUEST FOR RELEASE OF
CHILD SUPPORT OBLIGATIONS AND
EMANCIPATION OF CHILDREN BECAUSE
DEFENDANT FULLY EXPLAINED ALL FACTS
ABOUT THIS ISSUE IN HIS MOTION AND
SHOWED HOW HE FULFILLED ALL THOSE
OBLIGATIONS TO PLAINTIFF BETWEEN 2006-
2011 IN ADVANCE IN NUMEROUS PAYMENTS
AND ALSO STATED THAT BOTH CHILDREN ARE
EMANCIPATED BY NOW. THE TRIAL [JUDGE]
FAILED TO REQUEST ADDITIONAL
INFORMATION FROM BOTH PARTIES AND
UNFAIRLY DENIED DEFENDANT'S REQUEST
WITHOUT FURTHER INQUIRIES AND NOT
ADDITIONAL INFORMATION REQUESTED
FROM EITHER PARTY THE TRIAL [JUDGE]
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DENIED DEFENDANT ANOTHER FAIR
DECISION.
POINT V
THE TRIAL [JUDGE] ERRED IN NOT GRANTING
RELIEF TO DEFENDANT'S REQUESTS OF
HAVING PLAINTIFF PAY OFF AND/OR
TRANSFER TO HER OWN ACCOUNTS ANY
PARTS OF HER DEBT STILL CARRIED BY
DEFENDANT'S ACCOUNTS TO THE PRESENT
TOGETHER WITH ADDITIONAL
DELINQUENCIES CAUSED BY PLAINTIFF ON
HIS ACCOUNTS/CREDIT AS WELL AS JOINT
ACCOUNTS FOR WHICH PLAINTIFF IS
RESPONSIBLE FOR PAYMENTS (AS SET IN
10/10/06 FINAL DIVORCE JUDGMENT[)],
INCLUDING THE MORTGAGE AND HOME
EQUITY JOINT ACCOUNTS[.] THE TRIAL
[JUDGE] MADE NO MENTION OF THOSE
REQUESTS BUT DENIED ALL OF THEM
WITHOUT SPECIFIC REFERENCE [] AND/OR ANY
REASONING. THAT GENERAL DENIAL OF ALL
ISSUES NOT MENTIONED IN THE ORDER (PA
2A/PARAGRAPH 8) ALSO DENIED SEVERAL
REQUESTS BY . . . DEFENDANT EVEN MINOR
SUCH AS WAS THE ISSUE OF PLAINTIFF
CONTINUING TO USE DEFENDANT'S LAST
NAME [ELEVEN] YEARS AFTER THEIR DIVORCE
AGAINST DEFENDANT'S WILL WHICH ALSO
REMAINED UNANSWERED AND/OR
REJECTED[,] TOO.
We conclude that these contentions lack sufficient merit to warrant attention in
a written opinion, Rule 2:11-3(e)(1)(E), and affirm substantially for the reasons
given by the judge. We add the following remarks.
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We owe substantial deference to the Family Part's findings of fact because
of that court's special expertise in family matters. Cesare v. Cesare, 154 N.J.
394, 413 (1998). Thus, we "should uphold the factual findings undergirding the
trial [judge]'s decision if they are supported by adequate, substantial and
credible evidence on the record." MacKinnon v. MacKinnon, 191 N.J. 240, 253-
54 (2007) (quoting N.J. Div. of Youth & Family Servs. v. M.M., 189 N.J. 261,
279 (2007)). And, while we do not owe any special deference to the judge's
legal conclusions, Manalapan Realty LP v. Twp. Comm. of Manalapan, 140 N.J.
366, 378 (1995), we
"should not disturb the factual findings and legal
conclusions of the trial judge unless . . . convinced that
they are so manifestly unsupported by or inconsistent
with the competent, relevant and reasonably credible
evidence as to offend the interests of justice" or when
we determine the court has palpably abused its
discretion.
[Parish v. Parish, 412 N.J. Super. 39, 47 (App. Div.
2010) (alteration in original) (quoting Cesare, 154 N.J.
at 412).]
Defendant claims that in 2008 and 2009, he borrowed $86,115 from his
parents to fund a business, but because the parties were faced with potentially
losing the marital home, they agreed that plaintiff could borrow the money from
defendant and use it to avoid foreclosure. Defendant claims that this was an oral
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agreement and that plaintiff has "destroyed/hidden" written copies. The judge
said, "there has been no demonstration by . . . defendant that in fact there was a
loan obligation. There's nothing in writing that would indicate the requirement
for money to be paid from . . . plaintiff[] to defendant . . . ."
Defendant did not offer any credible proof to the judge or to this court that
would evince an agreement between the parties as to plaintiff's intention to repay
defendant, or that this was a loan. Moreover, defendant alleges that this
transaction occurred while the parties were co-habiting in the marital home.
Thus, it would seem as though both parties elected to use the funds toward this
purpose so that the home would not be foreclosed. Because of the deferential
standard of review involving family matters, we have no reason to disturb the
judge's findings or conclusions.
Defendant claims that he is entitled to the retroactive interest that would
have accrued on an account that plaintiff should have set up for defendant as per
the FJOD. The judge said:
Request for reimbursement for equity of former
marital residence under paragraph 7.1 of the parties[']
final judgment of divorce will be granted in part.
[Paragraph] 7.2 of the final judgment of divorce
indicates . . . that . . . once . . . plaintiff is provided with
a deed . . . transferring [defendant's] interest to . . .
plaintiff[,] then [plaintiff] is to provide [defendant]
with a recorded mortgage for $68,430.50 which
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represents the negotiated equity of . . . defendant, at the
time of final judgment of divorce.
And so [plaintiff] is to provide proof of that
recorded mortgage to [defendant] . . . by July 15[].
Defendant claims that plaintiff still has not provided proof of having recorded
the mortgage. Section 7 of the FJOD, which deals with the marital home and
the mortgage, does not make any mention whatsoever of the interest that would
have accrued on defendant's account if plaintiff had set up such an account years
earlier. The judge correctly granted in part defendant's request that plaintiff
provide defendant with proof of the recorded mortgage.
Defendant contends that he and plaintiff never "divided their belongings
after the divorce," and thus plaintiff retained personal items that belonged to
defendant and never returned them. The judge said, "[t]his is a divorce that was
finalized almost [eleven] years ago. . . . [E]ssentially any request for this type
of recovery of personal property is grossly untimely at this point."
Defendant argues that the judge misinterpreted the time frame – instead
of assuming that defendant waited eleven years before bringing his claims,
defendant asserts that he only waited six years since 2011 – the date when the
parties no longer co-habited. Thus, he feels that this is not "grossly untimely"
and falls within the six-year statute of limitations "for taking, detaining, or
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converting personal property." N.J.S.A. 2A:14-1. Yet, he provides no support
for why this should be the governing date.
As to defendant's request to terminate his child support obligations and
emancipate his two children, the judge stated that "[n]o sufficient information
[was] provided to the [c]ourt that would grant" this request. In the FJOD,
defendant was ordered to pay $500 per month in child support, commencing in
2008. Because defendant did not file the proper motions, the judge properly
declined to consider defendant's requests, and we do not find an abuse of
discretion warranting a reversal.
Defendant additionally claims that plaintiff has outstanding credit card
debt in defendant's name, thus impacting his financial credit score. But again,
he has not provided proof of such debt and claims that all agreements between
the parties were oral. As to living expenses, the judge denied this request stating
that there is "no basis in law for such a request." In the FJOD, both parties
knowingly waived any rights to alimony "now and forever," and agreed that such
a waiver is "non-modifiable for any reason whatsoever." In his brief, defendant
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claims that this was a misstatement and alleges that he sought "legal," not
"living" expenses. 1
A Family Part judge may award counsel fees at his or her discretion
subject to the provisions of Rule 4:42-9, and should consider:
(1) the financial circumstances of the parties; (2) the
ability of the parties to pay their own fees or to
contribute to the fees of the other party; (3) the
reasonableness and good faith of the positions
advanced by the parties both during and prior to trial;
(4) the extent of the fees incurred by both parties; (5)
any fees previously awarded; (6) the amount of fees
previously paid to counsel by each party; (7) the results
obtained; (8) the degree to which fees were incurred to
enforce existing orders or to compel discovery; and (9)
any other factor bearing on the fairness of an award.
[R. 5:3-5(c).]
A judge "shall consider the factors set forth in [Rule 5:3-5(c)], the financial
circumstances of the parties, and the good or bad faith of either party." N.J.S.A.
2A:34-23. Application of these factors and the decision to award fees is within
the trial judge's discretion. Gotlib v. Gotlib, 399 N.J. Super. 295, 314-15 (App.
1
Yet in the addendum to his complaint, defendant wrote that he seeks:
"Immediate [r]elief/[e]mergency [a]ssistance . . . for all his recent/current living
expenses including (and not only), his rent . . . his food/living expenses[,] etc.
[through] partial money reimbursement and/or possible immediate
accommodation requested for part of their residence (suggesting basement) if it
can be agreed/allowed by [p]laintiff."
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10 Div. 2008). That is, an "award of counsel fees in matrimonial actions is
discretionary with the trial [judge], [Rule] 4:42-9(a)(1), and an exercise thereof
will not be disturbed in the absence of a showing of abuse." Berkowitz v.
Berkowitz, 55 N.J. 564, 570 (1970).
Here, the judge did not address attorney's fees. Although the judge did
not address the issue of fees directly, he found defendant's positions meritless.
Furthermore, the Rule 5:3-5(c) factors require a judge to consider "the
reasonableness and good faith of the positions advanced by the parties" as one
of several factors, and as it was implicit that the judge found defendant's
positions meritless, this is an additional reason why attorney's fees were
unwarranted.
Affirmed.
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