Gloria Vance Byars v. William S. Byars, Jr.
Annotate this Case
Download PDF
IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF MISSISSIPPI
NO. 2002-CA-00085-COA
GLORIA VANCE BYARS
APPELLANT
v.
WILLIAM S. BYARS, JR.
DATE OF TRIAL COURT JUDGMENT:
TRIAL JUDGE:
COURT FROM WHICH APPEALED:
ATTORNEY FOR APPELLANT:
ATTORNEY FOR APPELLEE:
NATURE OF THE CASE:
TRIAL COURT DISPOSITION:
DISPOSITION:
MOTION FOR REHEARING FILED:
CERTIORARI FILED:
MANDATE ISSUED:
APPELLEE
12/19/2001
HON. GLENN ALDERSON
CALHOUN COUNTY CHANCERY COURT
A. E. (GENE) HARLOW
PAUL M. MOORE
CIVIL - DOMESTIC RELATIONS
FORMER HUSBAND'S PETITION FOR
MODIFICATION OF DIVORCE DECREE
GRANTED AND HIS OBLIGATION TO PAY
ALIMONY TERMINATED.
REVERSED AND RENDERED - 03/18/2003
BEFORE MCMILLIN, C.J., THOMAS, LEE AND CHANDLER, JJ.
LEE, J., FOR THE COURT:
PROCEDURAL HISTORY AND FACTS
¶1.
Gloria Vance Byars and William S. Byars, Jr. were married February 12, 1966, had two
daughters, and then separated on October 30, 1990. On March 12, 1993, the chancellor granted William
a divorce on the grounds of irreconcilable differences and awarded Gloria lump sum alimony. William later
filed a petition for modification of the divorce decree in the Chancery Court of Calhoun County. On
December 10, 2001, the chancellor granted the petition and terminated William's obligation to pay alimony
to Gloria. Gloria appeals to this Court asserting the following issues: (1) her lifestyle did not warrant the
termination of alimony payments; (2) even if a change was warranted, the chancellor committed error in
determining that William's duty to pay alimony was terminated rather than suspended. Finding that the
chancellor abused his discretion in finding that Gloria's lifestyle warranted a change in alimony payments,
we reverse and render.
DISCUSSION OF ISSUES
I. DID THE CHANCELLOR ERR IN TERMINATING ALIMONY PAYMENTS DUE TO
GLORIA'S LIFESTYLE?
¶2.
With her first issue, Gloria contends that the chancellor erred in terminating her alimony payments.
Specifically, Gloria claims that her current relationship is not the type of relationship described in the
separation agreement that would cease alimony payments. The pertinent section of the property settlement
agreement is as follows:
Husband shall be relieved of the obligation to pay any monthly installment due at any time
wife shall be lawfully married, or carry on a lifestyle with another man so as to afford said
man sexual exclusivity and the benefits of marriage without ceremonial endorsement. . . .
¶3.
In alimony cases, the chancellor is afforded wide discretion, and we will not reverse his decision
on appeal unless he was manifestly in error in his fact finding and abused his discretion. Armstrong v.
Armstrong, 618 So. 2d 1278, 1280 (Miss. 1993). Appellate courts need only to determine if the
chancellor's decision was supported by credible evidence. Lee v. Lee, 798 So. 2d 1284 (¶22) (Miss.
2001).
¶4.
The Mississippi Supreme Court has stated that in cases where the payor spouse seeks termination
of alimony payments to the recipient ex-spouse on the grounds that the recipient ex-spouse is engaged in
a sexual relationship with another or cohabiting with another, then the only issue properly before the court
2
is whether the ex-spouse receives financial support from the partner/cohabitant and not the moral aspects
of such relationship. Hammonds v. Hammonds, 641 So. 2d 1211, 1216 (Miss. 1994). Therefore, the
court must determine whether there has been a material change in circumstances since the divorce to
subject the spousal support to modification. Id. at 1215. In Ellis v. Ellis, 651 So. 2d 1068, 1074 (Miss.
1995), the Mississippi Supreme Court, pursuant to Hammonds, reversed and remanded to determine
whether the recipient ex-wife was in fact cohabiting, whether she was being supported by her lover (and
vice versa), and whether her financial needs had changed.
¶5.
In the present case, it is clear from the record that Gloria's lifestyle did not provide her boyfriend
with the benefits of marriage without ceremonial endorsement. Gloria testified that she had never lived with
her boyfriend, that they had two separate lives, and that she had no plans to marry or move to be near him.
In fact, Gloria lives in Batesville while her boyfriend lives in Grenada. Gloria further testified that her
boyfriend does not help her maintain her home or pay bills, that they do not own any assets together, and
that they have never commingled any of their finances. From the evidence before the chancellor, we find
it a stretch to conclude that Gloria's boyfriend received the benefits of marriage without the ceremonial
endorsement. The chancellor's comment about this was that once Gloria "became sexually active with one
man, that was about the same as a marriage." Finding that the chancellor abused his discretion in
determining that Gloria's sexual relationship amounted to a marriage, we reverse and render.
II. DID THE CHANCELLOR ERR IN DETERMINING THAT WILLIAM'S ALIMONY
PAYMENTS TO GLORIA SHOULD BE TERMINATED RATHER THAN SUSPENDED?
¶6.
Finding that the chancellor erred in terminating the alimony payments, we find this issue to be
without merit.
3
¶7.
THE JUDGMENT OF THE CHANCERY COURT OF CALHOUN COUNTY IS
REVERSED AND RENDERED. COSTS OF THIS APPEAL ARE TAXED TO THE
APPELLEE.
McMILLIN, C.J., KING, P.J., BRIDGES, THOMAS, MYERS AND CHANDLER, JJ.,
CONCUR. IRVING, J., DISSENTS WITH A SEPARATE WRITTEN OPINION JOINED BY
SOUTHWICK, P.J. GRIFFIS, J., NOT PARTICIPATING.
IRVING, J., DISSENTING:
¶8.
The majority finds, without expressly saying so, that the chancellor abused his discretion in
determining that Gloria had violated a provision in her separation agreement which relieved William of his
obligation to pay any monthly alimony installment due to Gloria if:
[Gloria] shall be lawfully married, or carry on a lifestyle with another man so as to
afford said man sexual exclusivity and the benefits of marriage without ceremonial
endorsement or cohabits with another female under such circumstances so as to afford
that female sexual exclusivity and the benefit of a same sex commitment.
(emphasis added). In addition to the above provision, the agreement also contained this provision: "Wife
shall properly report to Husband all lifestyle changes so as to enable Husband to determine his entitlement
to suspension of payments."
¶9.
Given the restraints on appellate review of a chancellor's finding — that is, that the appellate court
will not reverse a chancellor unless his findings are clearly erroneous or an abuse of discretion is shown —
I believe the majority errs in reversing and rendering the chancellor's decision. Therefore, I am compelled
to dissent, but I do so with deference to the very plausible position embraced by the majority.
¶10.
In reaching his decision, the chancellor acknowledged the difficulty he faced in attempting to
decipher the parties' intention from the very poorly-drafted separation agreement which encompassed the
specific provision in question. As to the provision in dispute, the chancellor observed:
4
I wish it was more explicit, but it's not. I've got to take what is here and the testimony that
came before the Court and try and do what is right and what is lawful in my opinion.
****
What do they mean by the benefits of marriage and the benefits of marriage [sic]? I don't
know. The main thing that this Court can see is that they -- they are trying to limit the wife
as to what she can do.
****
Everything in this Paragraph 4 (B) refers to her being the exclusive sexual partner of a
single man or a single woman and the benefits of marriage. The Court interprets that to be
the sexual activities of a couple under the guise of matrimony or marriage.
****
I think this is what the husband and wife are trying to get at in this separation agreement.
I wish it was more clear. I think they are trying to say that once she became sexually active
with one man that, that was about the same as marriage. They didn't put it in those terms
but I think that is what they were trying to say.
¶11.
I am unable to embrace the notion that the chancellor has abused his discretion or that his
interpretation of what the parties meant by the provision is clearly erroneous.
¶12.
Before discussing the evidence, I think it is appropriate to point out that when William and Gloria
executed the separation agreement to obtain their irreconcilable differences divorce, they were both
represented by attorneys. Therefore, it cannot be legitimately argued that Gloria was overreached, and
there is no evidence of fraud in the execution of the agreement. The agreement was approved and made
a part of the final judgment when the divorce was granted. Upon this occurrence, the parties were bound
by the bargain they had struck.
¶13.
In Bell v. Bell, 572 So. 2d 841 (1990), our supreme court stated the following:
We take it as established that settlement agreements entered into by divorcing spouses and
judicially approved under our Irreconcilable Differences Act, Miss. Code Ann. § 93-5-2
(Supp. 1990), become a part of the decree and enforceable as such as though entered by
5
the court following contested proceedings. Co-existing with this view is the reality that
such agreements are frequently the product of arms length bargaining and thus are in the
nature of court-approved contracts . . . . In property and financial matters between the
divorcing spouses themselves, there is no question that, absent fraud or overreaching, the
parties should be allowed broad latitude. When the parties have reached agreement and
the chancery court has approved it, we ought enforce it and take as dim a view of efforts
to modify it, as we ordinarily do when persons seek relief from their improvident contracts.
Id. at 844 (citations omitted).
¶14.
As the chancellor observed, the agreement was poorly written. The chancellor, however, was
obligated to enforce it in accordance with its terms and conditions. In his role as interpreter and enforcer
of the agreement, the chancellor concluded that "there has been a change of circumstances under the terms
of the agreement [and] that the alimony that William S. Byars, Jr. is required to pay to Gloria Vance Byars
is hereby terminated because of the sexual activity as enumerated in their final decree for divorce." I now
turn to a discussion of the evidence which the chancellor considered.
¶15.
Gloria testified that beginning sometime after March 1999, and continuing through the date of the
hearing, December 10, 2001, she had had sexual intercourse only with one man. The following colloquy
is what the record reflects on this point:
Q.
Now, Mr. Ratliff then became divorced in 1999; is that correct?
A.
Correct. March of '99.
Q.
From Nancy Ratliff?
A.
Correct.
Q.
And I believe we've had a deposition in this, and you said at that time you became
-- you had a sexual involvement with him; is that correct?
A.
After that fact. After that.
Q.
March of 1999?
6
A.
Right.
****
Q.
And it's been on -- it's been an exclusive relationship with him to this date; is that
correct?
A.
I've been seeing him exclusive -- well, I've -- I -- I saw one -- one guy Pat Tribble
one night, I don't remember the time frame off hand. But as far as the sexual
exclusivity it's been with him since that time, yes.
From Gloria's own testimony, it is clear that she had carried on a lifestyle with another man so as to afford
said man sexual exclusivity. The next question is: what did the parties mean by the phrase, "and the benefits
of marriage without ceremonial endorsement"?
¶16.
The record reflects, without contradiction, that Gloria had been Robert's constant companion since
1999 and had taken several trips with him, including two trips to Mardi Gras, a trip to Hawaii, a trip to
Antigua, a trip to Branson, Missouri, and a trip to Nashville to the National Water Well Association
convention. These trips lasted several days, and on each of the trips, Robert and Gloria shared the same
bed. Additionally, Gloria testified that she and Robert made numerous trips together to various casinos.
¶17.
The majority does not clearly identify the benefits of marriage that were not bestowed on Robert
Earl by Gloria. Apparently, however, the majority does not consider the constant companionship, provided
to Robert Earl by Gloria, a benefit accorded by marriage, or if so, only a singular benefit. Or, perhaps the
majority views the fact that Gloria and Robert Earl do not share living quarters together (she lives in
Batesville and he in Grenada), irrefutable evidence that Gloria has not provided Robert Earl with the
benefits of marriage.
7
¶18.
Clearly, there are situations in which unmarried persons live apart but enjoy the benefits of
marriage. Therefore, while living together is certainly a benefit of marriage, the failure to live together does
not preclude a finding that parties living separate and apart cannot and do not enjoy other benefits of
marriage.
¶19.
The majority observes that Robert Earl does not help Gloria maintain her home or pay her bills.
I fail to see the relevance of this fact because the proscription in the separation agreement is against Gloria's
actions, not the actions of the man with whom she may become involved. The majority also notes that
Gloria and Robert Earl do not own any assets together and have never commingled any of their finances.
While it is true that some married couples buy property together and share a single bank account, I do not
find that the failure of these parties to behave accordingly is outcome determinative of whether Gloria's
boyfriend has received some benefits of marriage.
¶20.
Surely, there are many intangible benefits of marriage, such as emotional bonding, companionship,
and mutual counseling, to name a few. I do not believe we should be limited in our view, as to what
constitutes the "benefits of marriage." In this modern culture of changing social norms and mores, couples
are increasingly creative in finding ways to reap the benefits of marriage without making the trip to the alter
or necessarily physically living with each other. Further, what may be considered a benefit to one couple
may not be considered a benefit to another and vice versa, depending on their respective situations,
including their professional and financial standing. For example, there are many married women, in control
of their own finances, who do not perform the traditional tasks of cooking, washing, ironing, etc. and would
consider it an affront to them to suggest that their contribution to the marriage must include these traditional
tasks. My point is, while there are things that are traditionally considered benefits of marriage, the benefit
list is much more expansive. I believe the majority is too limited in its view in this regard.
8
¶21.
I conclude by returning to the chancellor's view of this matter. As previously observed, his view
was that the parties, in the agreement, were focusing on cutting off Gloria's right to alimony if she entered
into a sustained monogamous sexual relationship. While it may be that the provision in question
contemplates more than that, I cannot say that his finding in this regard is clearly erroneous. It was his call
to make, and we, sitting as a reviewing court, do not have the prerogative to set aside his finding just
because we might have decided the issue differently had we been in his place. Richardson v. Riley, 355
So. 2d 667, 668 (Miss. 1978). And even if the chancellor erred with respect to his conclusion that Gloria's
sexual activity was the triggering mechanism for the interruption of William's alimony obligations, I believe
the record is sufficient to conclude that Gloria has afforded her lover sufficient benefits of marriage to
warrant a change in William's alimony obligations.
¶22.
I would therefore affirm the chancellor's finding that there has been a change of circumstances.
However, I would reverse and remand for the chancellor to determine to what extent William's obligation
to make alimony payments should be suspended rather than terminated. I believe the provisions quoted
at the beginning of this dissent compel this result.
SOUTHWICK, P.J., JOINS THIS SEPARATE OPINION.
9
Some case metadata and case summaries were written with the help of AI, which can produce inaccuracies. You should read the full case before relying on it for legal research purposes.
This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply.
