RICHARD A BOELSTLER V KATHRYN J BOELSTLER
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STATE OF MICHIGAN
COURT OF APPEALS
RICHARD A. BOELSTLER,
UNPUBLISHED
August 16, 2002
Plaintiff-Appellee,
v
KATHRYN J. BOELSTLER a/k/a KATHRYN J.
BARC,
No. 237693
Oakland Circuit Court
LC No. 97-545361-DM
Defendant-Appellant.
Before: Murray, P.J., and Fitzgerald and O’Connell, JJ.
PER CURIAM.
Defendant Kathryn J. Boelstler, a/k/a Kathryn J. Barc, appeals as of right from the trial
court’s order granting plaintiff Richard A. Boelstler’s motion to change physical custody of the
parties’ daughter, Alyssa. We affirm.
The parties divorced in July 1998. Defendant was awarded sole physical custody of their
children, Alyssa and Ryan, and moved with them to a house in Warren. Plaintiff married
Cynthia Boelstler and moved to a house in Lake Orion. When Alyssa showed plaintiff and his
wife large bruises on her body and told them that defendant was striking her with a belt, plaintiff
moved to change custody of Alyssa. The trial court granted plaintiff extended parenting time
with Alyssa pending an evidentiary hearing. After the evidentiary hearing, the trial court entered
an order awarding plaintiff physical custody of Alyssa Monday through Friday, and awarding
defendant parenting time throughout each weekend.
Three standards of review are used in custody cases. Phillips v Jordan, 241 Mich App
17, 20; 614 NW2d 183 (2000). When reviewing a child custody dispute, a decision of the trial
court must be affirmed unless its factual findings are against the great weight of the evidence, its
discretionary rulings demonstrate a palpable abuse of discretion, or it has made a clear legal error
with regard to a major issue. MCL 722.28; Mixon v Mixon, 237 Mich App 159, 162; 602 NW2d
406 (1999). Furthermore, a trial court’s evidentiary rulings are reviewed for an abuse of
discretion. Allen v Owens-Corning Fiberglass Corp, 225 Mich App 397, 401; 571 NW2d 530
(1997).
Defendant raises seven issues on appeal. First, defendant argues that the trial court erred
in admitting into evidence a psychological evaluation written by Karen Touchstone, M.A., an
expert in the area of psychological evaluation and testing. Specifically, defendant claimed the
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evaluation is hearsay and not admissible. We agree that the trial court abused its discretion in
admitting the psychological evaluation, but we hold that the trial court’s error harmless. A
Friend of the Court (FOC) report “is not admissible as evidence unless both parties agree to
admit it in evidence.” Duperon v Duperon, 175 Mich App 77, 79; 437 NW2d 318 (1989).
Although the trial court may consider an FOC report in making its decisions, it must reach its
own conclusions on properly received evidence. Truitt v Truitt, 172 Mich App 38, 42-43; 431
NW2d 454 (1988). The trial court’s custody decision must be based upon its own evidentiary
hearing, rather than the FOC’s hearing and conclusions. Id. at 43. Even reports that are similar
to FOC reports are also inadmissible hearsay and cannot be admitted as evidence without the
consent of both parties. See, e.g., Shelters v Shelters, 115 Mich App 63, 68; 320 NW2d 292
(1982) (FOC and social service agency reports); Adams v Adams, 100 Mich App 1, 15; 298
NW2d 871 (1980) (foreign state conciliation service report was inadmissible hearsay because it
was “akin to a report from a Michigan friend of the court office . . . ”).
The psychological evaluation in the instant case was a report written by Touchstone, a
psychologist who worked for the Oakland County Court Psychological Clinic. In the
psychological evaluation, Touchstone discussed her interviews with the parties and their
children, discussed the children’s test results, and discussed the child custody factors. In these
ways, the evaluation was similar to an FOC report. Therefore, the trial court erred in admitting
the psychological evaluation because it was inadmissible hearsay.1 Truitt, supra; Shelters, supra.
Consequently, the issue is whether the trial court’s error requires reversal of the order
granting plaintiff’s motion for change of custody. In a custody case, “upon a finding of error an
appellate court should remand the case for reevaluation, unless the error was harmless.” Fletcher
v Fletcher, 447 Mich 871, 889; 526 NW2d 889 (1994), after remand 229 Mich App 19; 581
NW2d 11 (1998). We consider this case unlike Truitt, supra at 44, where this Court remanded a
custody case when the trial court improperly reviewed and adopted the FOC findings instead of
arriving at its own conclusions. That trial court improperly made factual findings that were not
supported by the testimony at its own hearing, but were evidently supported by the FOC
investigation and hearing. In contrast, the record in the instant case shows that the trial court
made its own findings, rather than relying solely on Touchstone’s findings in her psychological
evaluation. In fact, the trial court ultimately found in favor of plaintiff on largely different
factors than Touchstone did. Because Touchstone testified to much of the same findings she
made in the evaluation, the trial court could have relied on this testimony without relying on the
hearsay evaluation in making its own findings. Id. Therefore, we hold that the trial court’s
admission of the psychological evaluation was harmless error. See Fletcher, supra at 889.
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Because the psychological evaluation was prepared by a licensed psychologist with a master’s
degree, not a medical doctor, and does not contain statements made by the parties or their
children for the purpose of medical treatment or diagnosis, we reject plaintiff’s argument that the
evaluation falls under the medical record exception to the hearsay rule. See MRE 803(4).
Moreover, the evaluation does not fall under the business records exception because a
psychological evaluation is not a record that is “kept in the course of a regularly conducted
business activity.” MRE 803(6).
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For all remaining arguments on appeal, defendant contends that the trial court ignored the
great weight of the evidence in granting plaintiff’s motion to change custody on a variety of the
child custody factors. This Court has set forth the requirements for a change of custody in a case
where, as here, the parties do not dispute that an established custodial environment existed with
one party:
A custody award may be modified on a showing of proper cause or change of
circumstances that establishes that the modification is in the child’s best
interest. . . . However, when a modification of custody would change the
established custodial environment of a child, the moving party must show by clear
and convincing evidence that it is in the child’s best interest. . . . [Phillips, supra
at 24-25 (citations omitted).]
Thus, plaintiff had the burden of showing by clear and convincing evidence that a change in
custody from that of defendant was in Alyssa’s best interests. Id. at 26. In evaluating the factors
listed in MCL 722.23 to determine the best interests of the child, neither the trial court nor this
Court must give equal weight to each of the custody factors. Id.; McCain v McCain, 229 Mich
App 123, 131; 580 NW2d 485 (1998). The trial court may consider evidence that is relevant for
one factor in making its finding in regard to another factor. Fletcher (After Remand), supra at
25-26. A trial court’s findings regarding each custody factor should be affirmed unless the
evidence clearly preponderates in the opposite direction. Phillips, supra at 20. The trial court in
this case found in favor of defendant for factors (a) and (i), found in favor of plaintiff for factors
(b), (d), (h), and (k), and found that the parties were equal in regard to the other factors.
In its second argument on appeal, defendant argues that the trial court’s finding that best
interest factor (b) favored plaintiff was against the great weight of the evidence. We disagree.
MCL 722.23(b) examines each party’s capacity and disposition to give the child love, affection,
and guidance and to continue the education and raising of the child in his or her religion or creed.
The trial court stated that plaintiff was “better able to provide the structure[,] boundaries and
limits that Alyssa requires to develop age appropriately.” It is true that defendant generally was
the primary person responsible for taking care of Alyssa’s education until plaintiff moved for a
change in custody. The deciding criterion for the trial court involved the fact that Alyssa was
diagnosed with attention deficit hyperactive disorder (ADHD), oppositional defiant disorder
(ODD), and other psychological conditions. The court acknowledged that defendant facilitated
various therapies for Alyssa, and provided Alyssa with religious training by taking her to
Catechism and church every week.
However, there was evidence that Alyssa was much more well-behaved around plaintiff
and his wife and could focus on tasks better while with them. Touchstone testified that although
defendant was a caring person, defendant’s and Alyssa’s co-dependent personality styles and
defendant’s conceded inability to manage Alyssa’s extreme tempter tantrums created an unstable
home environment.
Instead, Touchstone testified, Alyssa required structure, routine,
consistency, and limits in order to function in an age-appropriate way in society, and that
Alyssa’s problems could become worse if she stayed with defendant. In particular, Touchstone
stated, Alyssa blamed herself for defendant’s difficulty with her and believed that it was her fault
that defendant struck her. Considering Touchstone’s expert testimony, which is similar to her
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conclusions in the psychological evaluation, we are not persuaded that the trial court’s findings
were against the great weight of the evidence in regard to factor (b).
Third, defendant argues that the trial court’s finding that the parties were equal with
regard to best interest factor (c) was against the great weight of the evidence. MCL 722.23(c)
examines each party’s capacity and disposition to provide food, clothing, medical treatment, and
other material needs. The trial court found that factor (c) favored neither party because “[b]oth
parties are capable of earning a living and supplying Alyssa with her material needs.” Indeed,
the evidence showed that each party provided and cared for Alyssa in this way. Defendant
argues that, although both parties might be capable of supplying Alyssa with her material needs,
she proved that she is more disposed to do so. To the contrary, we do not agree that the great
weight of the evidence shows that factor (c) favors defendant. The evidence does show that
defendant may have been more involved than plaintiff in Alyssa’s therapy sessions and
administering Alyssa’s medications. Nonetheless, while Alyssa was in plaintiff’s care, plaintiff
had Alyssa see a therapist and there is no evidence that plaintiff was unwilling to assist Alyssa in
taking her medications. Therefore, we hold that the trial court’s findings were not against the
great weight of the evidence with regard to factor (c).
Fourth, defendant argues that the trial court’s finding that best interest factor (d) favored
plaintiff was against the great weight of the evidence. MCL 722.23(d) considers the length of
time the child has lived in a stable, satisfactory environment, and the desirability of maintaining
continuity. The trial court found that factor (d) favored plaintiff because Alyssa had adjusted
well to living with plaintiff and “[d]efendant’s home environment has been unstable given
Defendant’s inability to manage Alyssa’s acting out behaviors.” While generally the evidence
shows that living with defendant was somewhat pleasant for Alyssa, defendant also admitted that
she had used corporal punishment with Alyssa and locked her in her room when she was having
a temper tantrum.
Alyssa moved in with plaintiff and his wife after the court ordered that plaintiff’s
parenting time be extended, and Alyssa was at a day camp while plaintiff and his wife were at
work during the summer. Alyssa’s behavior was very good with plaintiff and his wife, and the
day camp never complained to plaintiff or his wife that Alyssa was misbehaving. Neither
plaintiff nor his wife ever used physical discipline against Alyssa; instead, the couple had firm
rules for the children. Plaintiff’s wife, Cindy, testified that she wants the best for Alyssa and will
help her, do things with her, and listen to her if she has problems. Again, Touchstone’s
testimony – that plaintiff’s home provided the structure Alyssa needed – prevailed for the trial
court on this factor. The trial court properly found that Touchstone was qualified as an expert in
the area of psychological evaluation and testing, and listened to her testimony in the form of an
opinion. MRE 702. Therefore, the trial court’s finding that factor (d) favored plaintiff was not
against the great weight of the evidence.
Defendant’s fifth argument on appeal is that the trial court’s finding that best interest
factor (e) favored neither party was against the great weight of the evidence. MCL 722.23(e)
evaluates the permanence, as a family unit, of the existing or proposed custodial home. The trial
court found in favor of neither party for factor (e) because “Defendant and Plaintiff both offer the
security of a family unit and permanence to Alyssa.” The evidence shows that when Alyssa
lived with defendant and Ryan after the divorce, Alyssa got along well with Ryan and made
friends in the neighborhood. Plaintiff lived in a house in Lake Orion with his wife, Cindy, who
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testified she and Alyssa were “best friends” and “have a great time,” despite being an authority
figure. Plaintiff also testified that he had “a good support system of friends and relatives for
Alissa’s [sic] emotional well being.”
We do not agree that the trial court’s finding in regard to best interest factor (e) was
against the great weight of the evidence. Although defendant’s family unit is composed of more
of Alyssa’s blood relatives, plaintiff offers a strong family unit through his wife and her family.
Alyssa may be able to see her brother more living with defendant, but there is no evidence that
plaintiff would not encourage a relationship between Alyssa and Ryan. We are not persuaded
that the great weight of the evidence demonstrates that defendant can provide a more permanent
family unit or home.
Sixth, defendant argues that the trial court’s finding that best interest factor (h) favored
plaintiff was against the great weight of the evidence. MCL 722.23(h) considers the home,
school, and community record of the child. The trial court found in favor of plaintiff for factor
(h) because Alyssa acted out aggressively while in defendant’s care, but was able to control her
anxieties while in plaintiff’s home. The trial court found that, to deal with Alyssa, defendant
struck her, locked her in her room, physically restrained her, and took her to the emergency room
for medication.
We reject defendant’s argument that these findings are not supported by the record. The
evidence shows that, while living with defendant, Alyssa had trouble focusing on school work
because of her ADHD. At home, Alyssa had temper tantrums and defied defendant, and
defendant handled two of the incidents by striking Alyssa with a belt and locking her in her
room, leaving welts and bruises on Alyssa’s body. Again, Touchstone testified that defendant
had to use extreme measures to manage Alyssa, including physical discipline that left injury and
taking Alyssa to the hospital to have her sedated. Further, Touchstone testified that defendant
reinforced Alyssa’s dependency on her by allowing Alyssa to sleep in the same bed as her. In
contrast, Alyssa’s behavior was very good when she was around plaintiff and his wife. Neither
plaintiff nor his wife ever used physical discipline against Alyssa. Touchstone testified that
being at plaintiff’s home, Alyssa could properly develop the skills to overcome her anxiety and
be reunited with defendant.
Defendant also argues that the trial court’s statement that Touchstone and Bryant
recommended that Alyssa live with plaintiff and change schools was not true. While the trial
court erred because Bryant recommended that defendant have parenting time during the week,
the court’s opinion shows that it made an independent decision that was not based solely on
Touchstone’s or Bryant’s recommendations. In considering the evidence presented, especially
the evidence that Alyssa is more stable and focused and can be managed while in plaintiff’s care,
the trial court’s finding that factor (h) supported plaintiff was not against the great weight of the
evidence.
Defendant’s seventh and final argument is that the trial court’s finding that best interest
factor (k) favored plaintiff was against the great weight of the evidence. MCL 722.23(k)
considers domestic violence against the child or witnessed by the child. The trial court found
factor (k) in favor of plaintiff because of these incidents where defendant struck Alyssa with a
belt and left physical marks. Defendant admitted that there were several instances when she used
corporal punishment with Alyssa. In November 2000, Alyssa was “having one of her tantrums”
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when defendant locked Alyssa in her room and Alyssa began throwing things inside. Defendant
also admitted spanking Alyssa, leaving red welts on her. On November 27, 2000, Alyssa
showed plaintiff a welt across her back, bottom, and thigh that were made by a belt. In April
2001, Alyssa was “having a tremendous tantrum” and defendant testified that she spanked her
with a belt, leaving welts on Alyssa. On April 3, 2001, Alyssa showed plaintiff a large bruise
from the top of her knee to the top of her hip, and Alyssa told him that defendant had struck her
several times with a belt and that she wanted the beating to stop.
Defendant argues that the trial court erred in finding in favor of plaintiff regarding this
best interest factor because the incidents of corporal punishment did not constitute domestic
violence. Again, we hold that the trial court’s finding that factor (k) favored plaintiff was not
against the great weight of the evidence. The evidence shows that defendant struck Alyssa with
a belt several times and left large welts, and Touchstone testified that these incidents constituted
domestic violence. Neither plaintiff nor his wife ever struck Alyssa or used physical discipline
against her. Regardless of why defendant struck Alyssa, the evidence supported the trial court’s
conclusion that defendant’s act of striking Alyssa with a belt hard enough to leave welts
constituted domestic violence. Therefore, the trial court’s finding that factor (k) favored plaintiff
was not against the great weight of the evidence. See MCL 722.28.
Because none of the trial court’s findings regarding the custody factors were against the
great weight of the evidence, we are not persuaded that the trial court abused its discretion in
granting plaintiff’s motion to change custody.
Affirmed.
/s/ Christopher M. Murray
/s/ E. Thomas Fitzgerald
/s/ Peter D. O’Connell
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