DASCH (BRIDGET) VS. KELLEY (STEVE)
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Commonwealth of Kentucky
Court of Appeals
NO. 2009-CA-001539-ME
BRIDGET DASCH
v.
APPELLANT
APPEAL FROM FAYETTE CIRCUIT COURT
HONORABLE LUCINDA CRONIN MASTERTON, JUDGE
ACTION NO. 05-D-00133
STEVE KELLEY ON BEHALF OF THE
MINOR CHILDREN CAILIN KELLEY
AND CONOR KELLEY
APPELLEE
OPINION
VACATING AND REMANDING
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BEFORE: CLAYTON AND NICKELL, JUDGES; KNOPF,1 SENIOR JUDGE.
CLAYTON, JUDGE: Bridget Dasch appeals the August 12, 2009, domestic
violence order (“DVO”) entered by the Fayette Family Court. Steve Kelley,
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Senior Judge William L. Knopf sitting as Special Judge by assignment of the Chief Justice
pursuant to Section 110(5)(b) of the Kentucky Constitution and Kentucky Revised Statutes
(KRS) 21.580.
Dasch’s former husband, obtained the DVO on behalf of their two children. For
the following reasons, we vacate and remand for dismissal.
FACTUAL AND PROCEDURAL BACKGROUND
The marriage between Kelley and Dasch was dissolved in Fayette
Circuit Court on December 27, 2006. During their marriage, they had a son and a
daughter, who, at the time of the incident, were six and three, respectively. Under
the provisions of the settlement agreement, which was incorporated into the decree
of dissolution, the parents shared joint custody and Kelley’s timesharing
arrangement was to have the children every other weekend plus Tuesday and
Thursday evening from 5:00 p.m. until 8:30 p.m.
Since the entry of the decree, the record shows that Dasch and Kelley
have a long court history that is divisive and adversarial. In April 2009, Dasch
learned that she would be relocating to Florida because of her current husband’s
military commitment. She immediately gave notice to Kelley about the move so
that they could revise the timesharing plan. Although they have participated in
mediation about a change in timesharing, no agreement has been reached between
them. Kelley, however, has not filed a motion with the court to change the
timesharing arrangement.
Kelley filed a petition for a DVO on July 24, 2009, against Dasch on
behalf of the children. On the evening prior to Kelley filing the emergency
protective order (“EPO”) petition, he discovered red marks on his daughter’s
bottom while preparing the children for a bath. He reported that, after discovering
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the red marks, he asked his son what had happened. Apparently, his son told him
that Dasch had yanked his sister by the hair from the tub and spanked her for a
long time. In addition, the little boy supposedly told Kelley that his mother told
him not to tell anyone and that, if he did, he would be in trouble.
Kelley then contacted his attorney who advised him to take the
children to the emergency room and contact the Cabinet for Health and Family
Services (“Cabinet”). Nonetheless, he did not contact Dasch after discovery of the
red marks or inform her that he was taking the children to the hospital. She only
learned the children’s whereabouts when dad did not return them after his
scheduled timesharing. In fact, Dasch had to contact Kelley to find out that the
children were at the hospital.
In the petition for the DVO, Kelley alleged that Dasch had severely
spanked her daughter when she discovered that the little girl had painted the
bathroom with red fingernail polish. Further, he claimed he was fearful that she
might lose control again and physically punish the children. Thereafter, an EPO
was issued by the family court and a hearing on the petition was scheduled for
August 3, 2009. The EPO awarded temporary custody of the children to Kelley.
Subsequently, the hearing was rescheduled to August 12, 2009, at the request of
the father.
At the hearing, Kelley put on three witnesses – himself and two
Cabinet social workers. During Kelly’s testimony about the statements his son
made to about the incident, Dasch objected to Kelley’s testimony on the basis that
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it was hearsay. Initially, the court sustained the hearsay objection but later reevaluated this ruling. After the re-evaluation, the court ruled that the son’s
statements to the father regarding the incident were admissible under the hearsay
exceptions for statements made for the purpose of medical treatment and exited
utterance. Dad then testified as to the son’s description of the event.
His next witness was Sonya Tanksley, an investigative social worker
for the Cabinet, who was on-call the night of the incident. Tanksley said that upon
her arrival at the hospital she spoke with the six-year old son who said that his
mother grabbed his sister by the hair out of the tub and spanked her for a long time.
Tanksley, however, never spoke directly to the parties’ daughter. Additionally,
Tanksley stated that red marks like those on the little girl’s bottom typically show
that the injury is new and conceded that the children had been with dad prior to
going to the hospital. After conferring with her Cabinet supervisor, Tanksley was
instructed to send the children home with Kelley for the night. Tanksley admitted
that she did not review the couple’s court records prior to sending the children
home with the dad. Tanksley also testified that on that evening she also spoke with
Dasch at the hospital. She described Dasch as upset and added that Dasch did not
want the children to go home with dad. According to Tanksley, Dasch was not
cooperative.
Kelley’s last witness was Lashonda Jackson, an investigative
caseworker for the Cabinet. She said that she went to see dad, mom, and the
children four days after the hospital visit. Jackson commented on the day of her
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visit the marks had faded with some slight bruising in the area. As was the case
with Tanksley, Jackson had not reviewed the parties’ court records prior to meeting
with everyone. Importantly, Jackson opined that, although it was her belief that
mother did spank the child, she also thought that the spanking was a one-time
event, would not occur again, mom was not a danger to the children and would not
physically punish the children again. Interestingly, neither Cabinet social worker
chose to remove Dasch’s infant daughter from her during the pendency of the
action. At the end of Kelley’s case, Dasch moved for a directed verdict, which the
court denied.
Next, Dasch presented her case. She stated that she never spanked her
children and did not believe in corporal punishment. Further, Dasch explained that
in the past she has requested several times that Kelley and his wife not spank the
children. On the day in question, she was preparing to bath the children when she
discovered that her daughter had painted the bathroom with nail polish. While
Dasch admitted raising her voice to her daughter, she claimed that she sent her
daughter to her bedroom but did not spank her. At that time, Dasch called a
neighbor to get advice on how to remove the polish. Apparently, the neighbor
asked if she had spanked the child, and Dasch said that she had not. She, then,
pursuant to the timesharing agreement with Kelley, delivered the children to him.
Dasch also testified that there was a long history of dad making accusations against
her when things did not go his way, and this incident was not the first time that
Kelley made a complaint about her to the Cabinet.
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Next, Jonathan Keller testified on behalf of Dasch. He was the next
door neighbor that she called to get advice about nail polish removal. Keller
corroborated her testimony and said that when he asked her if she spanked the little
girl, Dasch said that she had not spanked her daughter as that would not have been
helpful. Keller, further, said that he had never seen her spank her children and that
he knew she had a strong aversion to corporal punishment. Dasch’s next witness
was Brenda Mulcahy. Mulcahy had been supervising mom’s visit with the
children since the issuance of the EPO. Mulcahy said she had never seen Dasch
spank her children and found it hard to believe mom would spank them.
At the end of the testimony, the court entered its finding that it
believed that mom spanked the child, and additionally, the court found that the
mother’s denial of the spanking indicated that an act of domestic violence was
likely to occur again. Then, the court went on to order a modification of the
timesharing between the parties. Previously, Kelley had the children every other
weekend from Friday night to Sunday night plus every Tuesday and Thursday
evening from 5:00 to 8:30 p.m. The court, however, although making no finding
that it was in the best interest of the children to modify the timesharing, changed
the timesharing agreement and provided Kelley with more time. In the DVO,
Dasch was ordered to: 1) not commit further acts of domestic violence and abuse;
2) not dispose of or damage any property of the parties; 3) receive assessment and
treatment; and also, the DVO modified the timesharing so that Kelley now had the
children after school on Tuesday and Thursday, including overnight, and every
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other weekend through the Monday morning. The DVO was ordered in effect until
August 12, 2012. This appeal follows.
ISSUE
Dasch contends that, the court’s findings in the case are flawed. First,
she contends that the DVO failed to meet the standard set forth in KRS 403.750.
Next, Dasch maintains that the court erred by failing to grant her motion for
directed verdict at the close of Kelley’s case. Furthermore, she claims the court
incorrectly entered evidence, which could be characterized as hearsay, on two
different occasions. Finally, Dasch makes the case that the court erred by
modifying the timesharing agreement between the parties in a manner that is
inconsistent with KRS 403.320 and 403.270. Conversely, Kelley argues that
sufficient evidence existed for the entry of the DVO; the court properly denied the
motion for directed verdict; the purported hearsay evidence was properly admitted;
and lastly, the court properly modified the timesharing arrangement.
STANDARD OF REVIEW
The appellate standard of review for a family court's factual
determinations is whether the findings were clearly erroneous. Reichle v. Reichle,
719 S.W.2d 442, 444 (Ky. 1986). Findings are not clearly erroneous if they are
supported by substantial evidence. Moore v. Asente, 110 S.W.3d 336, 354 (Ky.
2003). Substantial evidence is evidence of sufficient probative value that permits a
reasonable mind to accept as adequate the factual determinations of the trial court.
Id. Finally, a reviewing court shall not set aside findings of fact unless clearly
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erroneous, and shall give due regard to the opportunity of the trial court to judge
the credibility of the witnesses. Kentucky Rules of Civil Procedure (CR) 52.01.
ANALYSIS
Prior to entry of a DVO, the court must find “from a preponderance of
the evidence that an act or acts of domestic violence and abuse have occurred and
may again occur[.]” KRS 403.750(1). “The preponderance of the evidence
standard is met when sufficient evidence establishes that the alleged victim ‘was
more likely than not to have been a victim of domestic violence.’” Baird v. Baird,
234 S.W.3d 385, 387 (Ky. App. 2007). In addition, Kentucky statutory law
defines “‘[d]omestic violence and abuse’ [as] physical injury, serious physical
injury, sexual abuse, assault, or the infliction of fear of imminent physical injury,
serious physical injury, sexual abuse, or assault between family members or
members of an unmarried couple[.]” KRS 403.720(1).
As discussed in Rankin v. Criswell, 277 S.W.3d 621, 624 (Ky. App.
2008), domestic violence proceedings are not criminal matters, but the
consequence for both parties are very significant. The consequences of the court
granting a DVO to both parties was artfully described in Wright v. Wright, 181
S.W.3d 49, 52 (Ky. App. 2005):
If granted, it may afford the victim protection from
physical, emotional, and psychological injury, as well as
from sexual abuse or even death. It may further provide
the victim an opportunity to move forward in establishing
a new life away from an abusive relationship. In many
cases, it provides a victim with a court order determining
custody, visitation and child support, which he or she
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might not otherwise be able to obtain. The full impact of
EPOs and DVOs are not always immediately seen, but
the protection and hope they provide can have lasting
effects on the victim and his or her family.
On the other hand, the impact of having an EPO or
DVO entered improperly, hastily, or without a valid basis
can have a devastating effect on the alleged perpetrator.
To have the legal system manipulated in order to “win”
the first battle of a divorce, custody, or criminal
proceeding, or in order to get “one-up” on the other party
is just as offensive as domestic violence itself. From the
prospect of an individual improperly accused of such
behavior, the fairness, justice, impartiality, and equality
promised by our judicial system is destroyed. In
addition, there are severe consequences, such as the
immediate loss of one's children, home, financial
resources, employment, and dignity. Further, one
becomes subject to immediate arrest, imprisonment, and
incarceration for up to one year for the violation of a
court order, no matter what the situation or circumstances
might be.
Thus, we conclude, notwithstanding the large numbers of domestic violence cases
in family courts, it is still paramount that the courts provide each party with a full
evidentiary hearing.
In examining this record, we must ascertain whether the court
accurately determined that Kelly met the burden of proof by a preponderance of
the evidence. The proof must have established that Dasch inflicted an act of
domestic violence on her children and may do so again. Clearly, the parties
dispute the most essential element of the case – whether Dasch spanked her
daughter. The record contains a picture of the child’s injury, which cannot be
contraverted. But Dasch denies spanking the child and provided testimony from a
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contemporaneous witness, Keller, who spoke with her on the phone immediately
following the nail polish incident. He says that, following his query about whether
Dasch spanked the little girl, Dasch denied doing so. In short, dad says she
spanked the little girl, and mom says she did not spank her.
Furthermore, all evidence presented to the court about the actual act of
domestic violence was based on the secondhand statements of Kelley and Dasch’s
six-year old son. Besides the picture of the child’s bottom, the only evidence in
this case was the son’s statements. In other words, the court never heard directly
from the child. While we are not suggesting the child should have been required to
testify, the nature of the evidence, reports of his statements, weakens the reliability
of the proof about what happened.
Moreover, we cannot fail to recognize that the parties were engaged in
a very contentious relationship. Kelley and Dasch appeared to be in constant
conflict about the children including disputes about the children’s discipline,
timesharing arrangement, and medical treatment. Moreover, regarding past
domestic violence, the only previous protective order was one to protect Dasch.
And, according to both parties, Kelley was the one who used corporal punishment
against the children. Further, they had sought court and state intervention on more
than one occasion. In fact, we find it worthy to note that around 7:00 p.m., minutes
before the father reported his daughter’s red bottom to his attorney, he emailed
Dasch about a timesharing issue.
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As previously referred to, “[t]he preponderance of the evidence
standard is met when sufficient evidence establishes that the alleged victim ‘was
more likely than not to have been a victim of domestic violence.’” Baird, 234
S.W.3d at 387. It is our task to determine whether the court’s finding that the
mother committed an act of domestic violence is supported by substantial
evidence; that is, “evidence of substance and relevant consequence having the
fitness to induce conviction in the minds of reasonable men.” Owens-Corning
Fiberglas Corp. v. Golightly, 976 S.W.2d 409, 414 (Ky. 1998) (citing Kentucky
State Racing Commission v. Fuller, 481 S.W.2d 298, 308 (Ky. 1972)). Although a
different finding might or been made whether that the mother committed an act of
domestic violence, we will not substitute our opinion for that of the court.
Therefore, we accept the court’s finding on that issue.
But now we address the second element necessary for the issuance of
a domestic violence order, that is, the court must also find that such an act “may
again occur.” With regard to the second element, the evidence is extremely weak
and virtually non-existent. Granted the likelihood of future domestic violence is a
difficult element to prove, nonetheless, in making such a determination, a court is
able to consider the nature and extent of the underlying act of domestic violence,
any past history of domestic violence or protective orders, and the petitioner's
reasonable fear of the perpetrator based upon past actions. First, examining the act
itself, we observe that it was a spanking which was a one time event. The past
history between the parties shows no previous domestic violence by the mother.
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Indeed, the only past history is that the father has spanked the children before, and
the mother had a DVO against him to protect herself. Finally, in terms of the
children’s fear of the mother, the only party that testified that the children feared
the mother was Kelley. Other witnesses claimed that the children’s behavior
showed that they wanted to be with their mother. Kelley himself admitted that he
had never seen Dasch spank the children and he knew she was against corporal
punishment. Finally, and most significant, Kelley’s own witness, Jackson, the ongoing social worker in the case stated that she believed that the spanking was a
one-time, isolated occurrence, and would not occur again. Jackson went on to say
that mom was not a danger to the children and would not physically punish the
children again. The court’s opinion was that the mother’s denial about the
spanking compelled a finding that abuse might occur again. In light of the record
and the testimony, we believe that substantial evidence was not provided to support
the family court's conclusion that an act of domestic violence may occur in the
future, and that the court’s finding were erroneous on that element. Consequently,
we vacate the DVO.
Although the remaining contested issues are moot as we have vacated
the DVO, we will briefly address them. Dasch argues that her motion for directed
verdict at the close of Kelley’s case should have been granted. For a trial court to
grant a directed verdict the requirements are to “consider the evidence in its
strongest light in favor of the party against whom the motion was made and must
give [that party] the advantage of every fair and reasonable intendment that the
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evidence can justify.” Lambert v. Franklin Real Estate Co., 37 S.W.3d 770, 775
(Ky. App. 2000) (quoting Lovins v. Napier, 814 S.W.2d 921, 922 (Ky. 1991).
Given that “a trial judge cannot enter a directed verdict unless there is a complete
absence of proof on a material issue or if no disputed issues of fact exist upon
which reasonable minds could differ[,]” we believe, in the case at hand, that the
court did not err in denying the directed verdict motion. Bierman v. Klapheke, 967
S.W.2d 16, 18-19 (Ky. 1998).
Second, we recognize that a dispute existed as to whether certain
statements by Kelley were properly admitted under exceptions to the hearsay rules.
Clearly, a DVO petition is subject to the same evidentiary standards as other forms
of evidence. See Dawson v. Com., 867 S.W.2d 493, 496-497 (Ky. App. 1993).
Here, having reviewed the record, listened to the hearing, and reviewed the briefs,
we observed that the issue and the rulings are very confusing. Since we have
vacated the DVO, it is not necessary for us to make a determination as to the
correctness of the court’s rulings on hearsay. Furthermore, Dasch did not object to
the social workers’ testimony about what her son said to them so that the issue was
not preserved for our review and, as such, is harmless error. But we must caution
that it is imperative for trial courts to allow only admissable statements under the
evidentiary rules.
The final issue for our review is whether the court erred in modifying
the timesharing agreement between the parties. As we are vacating the DVO, the
modification of the timesharing agreement reverts to the previous agreement and
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our discussion has no impact. Nonetheless, we believe that the court erred in its
modification of the timesharing based on the DVO petition. After the court
entered the DVO, it entertained the in-court request by Kelley to modify the
timesharing. Although a court through a DVO is permitted to modify the custody
and visitation arrangements under KRS 403.750, KRS 403.320, and KRS 403.270,
it must comply with the formalities imposed by these statutes. Here, the family
court did not comply with them. The hearing itself shows that dad requested a
change in timesharing, and his request was granted. Nothing was stated showing
the change to be related to the entry of the DVO or in the best interests of the
children. It is imperative that if timesharing arrangements are to be changed
through the DVO process, the court follow the statutory strictures, provide a
rationale for ordering temporary custody and show it is in the best interest of the
children.
CONCLUSION
Despite our usual deference to a trial court's factual findings, in this
case, we conclude that the court’s finding about whether domestic violence may
occur again is clearly erroneous as the appellant did not meet the preponderance of
evidence standard. Accordingly, we vacate the DVO entered against Dasch and
remand this case to Fayette Family Court for entry of an order dismissing the
August 12, 2009 DVO.
ALL CONCUR.
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BRIEF FOR APPELLANT:
BRIEF FOR APPELLEE:
Jennifer McVay Martin
Lexington, Kentucky
Catherine Ann Monzingo
Lexington, Kentucky
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